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queersecrets:

Image description: A black and white photo of a man and a woman getting married.  Text reads “I’m bisexual, but I am afraid to come out openly.  Ever since I got married, I feel like my sexuality shouldn’t matter anymore.  And it frustrates the hell out of me.”

Doesn’t that suck. Sorry. I’m going to talk on this one.

About how we all live so much on our visual sense and out thoughts, rather than the reality of what might actually be. Doesn’t it stink, to know that nobody can really know us because we’re so complicated and amazing and contradictions all held together. But by our clothing and skin there are so many attachments and visions that we can’t hold on to but have to. In the minds of another?

Why is it that we know so little about ourselves, and make so many assumptions about another, and why is that we give so much power to the identity another gives us, that we forget nobody can even know… because we’re all just human…


  1. pinkadoration reblogged this from fuckyeahbisexuals and added:
    It’s time I said it....bisexual. I’m married. I’m in love with a woman…who loves me. Will...
  2. rosyeyes reblogged this from bisexualshitthatblows
  3. bisexualshitthatblows reblogged this from bamapolybiguy1
  4. bamapolybiguy1 reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    There’s support groups, such as HOW [Husbands Out to Wives]...BMMA [Bi Married Men
  5. jezebelfactory reblogged this from dirtyxygirl and added:
    How so? It just sounds like OP wants to be monogamous. Which can be...informed decision,
  6. jezebelfactory reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    If it still matters to you, then it still matters. There are people with broader orientations that get into
  7. lakrymosa reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    out. It still matters.
  8. itinerantvae reblogged this from fuckyeahbisexuals and added:
    My husband once told me that I “used to be” bisexual. I couldn’t even say anything in reply, I was so shocked that he...
  9. renirabbit reblogged this from ohthepretty and added:
    i for one just get really tired of having to explain to people that yes i´m married but yes i still feel attracted to...
  10. rapacioushawk reblogged this from dirtyxygirl
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  12. strangecandii reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    hate this. When you...your sexual identity doesn’t...anymore...
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  14. lettherecordshow reblogged this from fuckyeahbisexuals and added:
    My life in this text… and the picture
  15. gaiagurl reblogged this from fuckyeahbisexuals and added:
    I came out while I was married (still am). It was weird and a little difficult for my husband and family to accept. They...
  16. dirtyxygirl reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    The fact that you think marriage limits your...shows what an unhealthy view
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  18. ohthepretty reblogged this from queersecrets and added:
    understand why someone would...this. What I don’t understand is how they can think...
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