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HI! Sorry to I’m slightly off topic, but you may or may not have heard Westboro Baptist Church is protesting the Super Bowl(which is in my home city). I’m organizing a counter protest here:http://www.facebook.com/events/215123268579961/. If at all posible I would love a signal boost for the protest, so any LGBTQ and accepting bloggers coming in for the game know what’s going on.

Anonymous asked: Even though I identify as bisexual, sometimes I feel like I have no right to do so. I am very much sexually attracted to women and I do recognize the possibility that I might fall in love with a woman; but when it comes down to it, I often feel a stronger attraction to men and I know that it's more probable that I'll end up with a man. (I am a woman, by the way.) I feel guilty for not having a more equal preference and it makes me wonder whether I can still call myself bi. =(

There is no right or wrong way to be bisexual. It’s only a label. Did you know there are a little less than 7 billion people in the world right now? How can all of those people be divided into a few different labels [gay, bi, straight, pansexual, asexual, queer]? They can’t. That’s why there are constantly new labels being created….That’s why everybody wants to know which one they fit in because they don’t always fit into any of them perfectly. So it’s up to you to choose your own label. Figure out which one best suits you, and go with it. You can always change it later down the road. 

There is only one manual to life worth following, and it’s the one in your soul. Trust yourself to make the right decisions for you.

Anonymous asked: I've never labeled myself but I guess I would consider myself pansexual. The problem is, is that everyone around me assumes I'm straight & the people I'm closest to, don't believe that bisexuality or pansexuality exist. That people who are attracted to two or more genders & sexualities are either doing it for the attention or are in denial. I don't feel like I could ever come out. I feel like no matter who I eventually marry, I'll be considered straight or a lesbian. It's frustrating and lonely.

In my experience, as I’ve grown older, I’ve realized that the world can be a pretty negative place. It certainly does seem that regardless of what you say, people will assume, judge, and label you as they please. So my response to this is to simply move past that. I’ve noticed that the people who truly believe and love in themselves are the people that I want to be around and admire. People with confidence in who they are, those are the people we listen to. 

So believe in who you are, and trust yourself. It doesn’t matter what other people may say or do, because as long as you are by your side and love yourself, then things will turn out ok. 

Remember, you don’t have to tell anyone about your sexuality if you don’t want to. And if you do, that’s fine too. Just be sure you are ready to tell. 

I hope this helps.

Anonymous asked: Is it just me or biphobia happens in both the gay and straight community?

There are many people who have experienced biphobia in both the gay and straight community. In fact, there is a lot of prejudice, in general, in the world. This is because not all people have gone through the same experiences, and we all have different opinions on things regardless of our race, sexuality, gender, etc. Just because a person may be gay doesn’t mean that they’ll be understanding towards your sexuality. This a stereotype of the gay community that is incredibly misleading. Just because a group of people undergo similar struggles, does not mean they will all react similarly. 

In no way do I mean that it makes prejudice of any kind acceptable. I am simply saying that prejudice can happen in all different groups of people, which is truly unfortunate.